Thursday, December 11, 2008

"White Women Suck" ????????

Just to show how ludicrous the Something New Crew is, over on Halima Anderson's blog, there is a link on her blog roll that says "White Guy Making Sense". The link takes you to a blog entitled "White Women Suck".

Now if anyone has spent any amount of time reading the IR blogs in this circle, one would see the simplistic notion that white men and and black women are good, while black men and white women are bad. Now the hypocrisy of the notion of black men being bad while black women are good has repeatedly been exposed as hypocrisy, yet the notion of white women being bad while white men are good is even more baffling. What specifically is the basis for the notion? I know the answer.

White women are bad to them for the simple reasons that, as heterosexuals, they do not desire white women and that white women are the overwhelming champions in the competition for white men. This makes white women bad. Of course, they will not admit this, thus they do what they do so well. The make things up and present such things as fact. Or, in this case, they lend their support to an alleged white man who does the same.

A say "alleged" because I don't see it as beyond one of them to pretend to be a white guy who serves their cause and because this alleged white man's arguments for white guys dating non-white women sound very similar to the Something New Crew's arguments for black women dating non-black men.

But lets say that this is actually a white man. People have referenced evidence that this guy is simply a white guy who is pissed off because he was turned down by some white women in favor of black men. So his revenge fantasy is to try to convince white men to do what he feels that these white women did to him. And sure enough, members of The Something New Crew embraced his foolishness. They are participating with and supporting a blog whose title and premise is blatantly racist and denigrating to white women.

Lets take a look at one of his posts.

"Throughout my life, the white men that I've known who get involved with non-white women generally do so because he just happened to like the woman, not because of her race. If you look at their dating past, you will see that most of the women they have dated are white. So the fact that a particular woman that they were involved with who happened to not be white was merely a coincidence, not a pattern. Even guys who prefer non-white women often primarily date white women. Why? Because it is merely a preference."

Now specifically what makes this a fact? Well, it is apparently fact because he CLAIMS THAT THIS IS WHAT THE GUYS THAT HE KNOWS WHO HAVE DATED NON-WHITE WOMEN DO. In other words, not only are we supposed to automatically believe that these are his actual observations, but that his observations are everyone's observations. Lets go further:

"With the white women I know that date inter-racially, it is different. Just about ALL white women that I know who date inter-racially have a history of dating inter-racially. For example one of my wife's friend's nieces ONLY dates Mexican guys. I know many white women who ONLY date black guys. For white women, race isn't merely a preference, it is a requirement.

Again, we are automatically believe that these are his actual experiences and, if true, his experiences would be everyone's experiences." Here is the rest:

"Oddly enough, despite the fact that race seems to be so much more important to white women than white men, it is white MEN, not women who get pegged as having a fetish when we date inter-racially. Doesn't this seem a bit odd to anyone?"

Notice how he says "despite the FACT" as if it is a "FACT" now that he has claimed to have observed this. Oh, I guess that folks don't lie on the internet.

Now lets take a look at his premise. He seems to believe that exclusively dating someone of another race or at least predominantly dating someone of another race is more of a sign of a fetish. Actually, the opposite is the truth. Folks generally don't form relationships based on fetishes. For example, "chubby chasers" don't particularly start relationships or marry overweight women, but rather seek them to fulfill that particular sexual fetish. So they seek out overweight women for sex, while often limiting thei
r actual GIRLFRIENDS to average sized or slender women. That is the very nature of a fetish.

A white person with a fetish for black people will tend to seek black people for casual sex, but not dedicated relationships. So when one sees white women whose boyfriends or husbands tend to be black, their relationships with black men tend to be preferences as opposed to fetishes. So Mr. Harry Potter's premise is actually quite backward.

15 comments:

Truth B. Told said...

If you read the comments section of the Nov 5 post of his blog,

https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=6918905460841536496&postID=2874327961345438015&isPopup=true

I (as RealityChecker) gave him some numbers to chew on. His first reply was to try to abuse the numbers in order to confirm his world view. When that failed, he resorted to more illogic and an ad homimen attack of me. Finally, he will no longer post my posts.

I am not sure but I don't think he is a woman from the "something screwed" crew pretending to be a white guy, I think he actually is a White Guy with severe yellow fever and a need to justify it.

Truth B. Told said...

I also want to add that while marriage and fetish relationships are not mutually exclusive, I do think their is a huge overlap when a fetish exists. I think people are more likely to marry someone whom they prefer to date.

Concerned Citizen said...

Love the Blog.

We all know that is another jealous some new member.

RainaHavock said...

What????!! Truly these are definalty the kind of white guys not just black women but women in general need to avoid. He's not up on his rocker.

@Truth be told: Interesting stats also I wonder if a black man had post it up something saying "Black Women suck" How many of the SN crew would be talking about it.

Una Persona said...

I think Harry is really a very pathetic white man. Did anyone read his post on how historically white women have ALWAYS had it better than other women and yet are so ungrateful to white men for being so gracious to them. His take on history is insane.

He clearly hates black men but is too much of a chicken to come right out and say it because it would make him look like a racist asshole, so it is easier to attack white women diretly and black men indirectly. For wimpy men, attacking women is the easiest outlet to vent some sort of pent up frustration.

He has no interest in reason, for example, he was whining about the lack of positive portrayals of white men in the media - which is just a joke - and particularly blonde ones (must be a blonde) so I wrote to him with a very long list of famous blond actors including the current James Bond and of course he didn't post it. Why because it really was a very long list (and I only included the ones who get to play leading men and heros and studs and pointed out that some of them - like Kiefer Sutherland aren't good looking at all, yet still get portrayed as if they are - the same beef he has with white women) I also pointed out that blond men are by far the smallest group of men on earth and I am sure they don't outnumber black men, yet there are more famous and highly paid blond male actors than black ones. He keeps pointing to Eddie Murphy and Will Smith over and over again as soom sort of proof that black men are over represented.

He is a fool who is afraid of the facts.

His most recent post is with an ugly picture of Sara Jessica Parker as proof that ugly white women are idolized over women of color. I sent a post agreeing that I think she is ugly but that the same occurs with white men (for example Jack Nicholson still gets to leading play roles as the love interest of much more attractive women) of course he didn't publish that either.

Anonymous said...

ive also sent him hard facts debunking his claims(a lengthy list of a-list non-white female celebs), but he does not post anything that he cannot easily tear down.

Anonymous said...

harry potter gives facts and references very real phenomenoms to support his arguments, while you just give a bunch of personal opinions. i'll go with harry on this one.

Anonymous said...

Why are you so concerned about Harry Potter? I personally think it is pretty pathetic that he feels the need to put down white women (particurlarly when he is white as are his family members and future daughters) just because he is likes Asian women. However', don't you and plenty of other black men on the internet do the same thing when it comes to black women? Why is it wrong for him to do the same thing? Is it just that you feel you must come to the defense of all the white women?

Anonymous said...

I was disapointed not to be able to leave a post on Harry Potter's blog, but you've pretty much said what I felt compelled to say anyway, so thanks!

It's just crazy that people can think so simplistically. This blonde white guy seems like he was spoilt by his Mummy into thinking that every girl should want him and when a couple didn't he couldn't take it.

Anonymous said...

it seems to me that the battle is between idiots and intelligent decent people, not between men and women, or people of different races. only idiots USE these categories to manipulate others or boost their own egos. pretty sad. and unfortunately i don't see that the only way to break down these kind of stereotypes is for children to be able to make up their own minds on the playgrounds without pollution from racist and sexist adults. may sound like a benetton ad but as a teacher in london i've seen it work.

as a white women from britain i found it pretty scary reading that people are being brought up to think white women are the root of all evil. i can see how white people have historically oppressed others and that would make people angry, but do they really believe white women are somehow genetically evil?! and was it white women passing the slavery laws or white men!? i agree it seems that white men are too much of a target for some black racists so they go for white women instead. and in our society (i mean western) its pretty hard to argue that men are judged more baased on their looks than women.

ah this guy is just crazy, it is a waste of time! but good luck.

Anonymous said...

You know what? I don't see any different what this white man is saying any worst then what black men say about black women. white men should know their women.

Anonymous said...

You know, I'm not down with the "Something New" club, I'm more on the "White Man Ain’t Shit" club. However, when I survey other races, the majority of their men actually protect and lead their women. I see some black men running to the aid/side/defense of white woman - do any of you (who do that) realize what that implies about your "person". Yes, I am a black woman, but I now know why this behavior is so prevalent - as I have documented white women doing greater destruction to the demise of men, than even black women. Black women just stupidly fell for joining a plight that was NEVER hers (feminism) - but BW never had the power to reek the type of destruction that WW have. Yet WW are upheld as goddesses by many of you BM. In turn, they know that you view them this way and secretly exploit you. As a Psycho-therapist for many said WW, I have tons of documentation, evidence and evaluations demonstrate what is REALLY going on.

PrinciplesOfLight said...

Sadly enough... We all know that the Black woman has NO protector, NO defender, NO leader, NO Guide.

It seems that black men hate the very womb that spun them.

It is no surprise that black men would run to every other "field" instead of working on tilling the ground of his own.

I'm shocked that there are still black babies being born with the way both genders are carrying on.

The shame of it all is that black mens' notoriety for "sleeping & leaving" black women (who then have illegitimate babies) is shamefully eclipse by their out-of-the-blue ability to be an upstanding family man and protector when it comes to white woman. I get letters all the time from BM & BW whose families were torn apart due to a father or husband that was lead away due to lust of white females. Black men, we know you hate us, but you have NO idea what entity you are playing with! You are about to see just what the White females have planned for you in a few short years. (remember you read it here first!)

Rocky said...

However, when I survey other races, the majority of their men actually protect and lead their women.

You've never done any such survey nor have there been any such survey done that has produced the conclusions that you claim.

I see some black men running to the aid/side/defense of white woman - do any of you (who do that) realize what that implies about your "person".

You've never seen any such behavior.

Yes, I am a black woman, but I now know why this behavior is so prevalent - as I have documented white women doing greater destruction to the demise of men, than even black women.

You've documented no such thing.

Black women just stupidly fell for joining a plight that was NEVER hers (feminism) - but BW never had the power to reek the type of destruction that WW have. Yet WW are upheld as goddesses by many of you BM. In turn, they know that you view them this way and secretly exploit you. As a Psycho-therapist for many said WW, I have tons of documentation, evidence and evaluations demonstrate what is REALLY going on.

You are no psychotherapist nor have you documented any such evidence.

Sadly enough... We all know that the Black woman has NO protector, NO defender, NO leader, NO Guide.

Sadly enough, this is a common lie.

It seems that black men hate the very womb that spun them.

This seems to be a fabrication.

It is no surprise that black men would run to every other "field" instead of working on tilling the ground of his own.

Continued nonsense. Only five percent of black men marry white women.

I'm shocked that there are still black babies being born with the way both genders are carrying on.

Apparently, the fact that they are still being born shows how wrong your assertions are.

The shame of it all is that black mens' notoriety for "sleeping & leaving" black women (who then have illegitimate babies) is shamefully eclipse by their out-of-the-blue ability to be an upstanding family man and protector when it comes to white woman.

No such "out-of-the-blue ability" exists. It's made up.

I get letters all the time from BM & BW whose families were torn apart due to a father or husband that was lead away due to lust of white females.

No you don't.

Black men, we know you hate us, but you have NO idea what entity you are playing with! You are about to see just what the White females have planned for you in a few short years. (remember you read it here first!)

Black men don't hate black women. Stop making things up.

Eben said...

I need to leave my perspective here just so people realize that there are OTHER REASONS not stated, here.
As a white guy I can't stand dealing with women who find the smallest thing you say as something to read deeply into. I can't stand when they are worried about me being a rapist even though they have no reason to. I can't stand that I could potentially be accused of rape if I meet an ignorant enough girl who doesn't know what rape means. I've observed first-hand my friends makeout with guys they like but then gossip about guys they don't like as if they were literal rapists for no reason other than the dude having some vague "creepiness" about him (maybe he's socially inept, maybe she's wishing she wants to be a child again and let her imagination run wild thinking she's inside some kind of horror story).
I've seen groups of my (female) friends all suddenly betray me at once just because they wanted to view me as the enemy and never gave out a reason for me so I could at least get some closure.
I've been accused of rape during the most vulnerable point in my life, when I was on probation for an unrelated crime. Do you realize how easily they throw you in prison if you're already on probation? If you're African American (Black American) you probably have a good idea how the situation I was in wouldn't have worked out if it were you. (I refused to make a statement without a lawyer present, PO asked why, I told him I didn't trust the system, he understood and said I need to make a statement, my dad made a statement and I got out of it. I saw this girl once after this. I've never wanted to harm a girl before that and I basically stopped attending college so that I'd never run across her again. Later on in life another female friend of mine told me she was raped hours after the fact. I was suspicious of the guy and never cared to talk to him but I didn't do anything about it because, as least to me, I wasn't sure if she was being honest. Years later he's now being convicted of 10 felonies, mostly battery (of his spouse). This world where women falsely accuse rape has turned me into an apathetic person and I'm fucking disgusted in myself.)

In my experiences, I've never ONCE met a non-white woman who's as crazy and fucked up as white women are (unless they were RAISED by white folks). To be fair, I believe most non-American women are significantly better than that vast majority of American women, regardless of race... because fundamentally there is no such thing as race and all American women deal with the same dominant culture.