tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567787243850242789.post403792666346962760..comments2023-08-18T12:26:52.573-07:00Comments on Black Men Confronting The Lies And Distortions: Lies ExposedRockyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15184158922025670970noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567787243850242789.post-29806594762509268372011-05-26T02:05:17.578-07:002011-05-26T02:05:17.578-07:00Hi, greetings from bali wedding. I am very impress...Hi, greetings from bali wedding. I am very impressed and gave me new knowledge. Thanks for the article. ThanksBali Weddinghttp://baliweddingpalace.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567787243850242789.post-87108498530977227332011-05-07T06:04:59.696-07:002011-05-07T06:04:59.696-07:00Within the black community women hold the "so...Within the black community women hold the "soft" power that is the power to shape the dialogue. No one really wants to admit that because the black woman as the eternal victim is far more lucrative. It would be foolish of me to act as though there are no serious issues facing black women, however this pretense that they are powerless and victims of black men's wanton behavior must cease if we are to truly progress as a community.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567787243850242789.post-9671759887690832572011-02-25T02:14:03.958-08:002011-02-25T02:14:03.958-08:00Fantastic! Sober! Necessary! Expose! Great job, Ro...Fantastic! Sober! Necessary! Expose! Great job, Rocky!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567787243850242789.post-21828926683637846112011-02-18T13:04:08.568-08:002011-02-18T13:04:08.568-08:00Right on!... and it is a very small minority of bl...Right on!... and it is a very small minority of black women who perpetuate half truths about black males! Unfortunately ,the squeaky wheel gets the grease.ReadingByLearninghttp://beyondjane.com/family/marriage/alienation-of-affection/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567787243850242789.post-31079247353942948802011-02-14T17:24:57.618-08:002011-02-14T17:24:57.618-08:00Sister Rashida said:
when women are at the height...Sister Rashida said:<br /><br />when women are at the height of their youth and beauty, we tend to take men for granted. We have suitors pouring out of our ears and can often be cruel and not even know it. Lying to guys, cheating on them, stringing them along, etc. But all that changes when we get older. And men do not forget how they were treated! They remember every stuck up girl that dissed them, every girl they loved that cheated, etc.<br /><br />Menelik says:<br /><br />this is so utterly but it's something men are loathed to talk about lest we be called bitter, angry, or acting like women! Please check out this YouTube dispute in which a conscious Black man has a voice-mail correspondence exposed on YouTube by a vengeful young sister:<br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sYsFiQnUEyE&feature=email&email=comment_reply_received <br /><br /><br />Also pay careful attention to the exchanges I had with the sister concerned and how she tried to justify her actions with something she hadn't previously referred to in the video or elsewhere. Note also that she deemed his actions as behaving like "emotionally unstable female".<br /><br />The whole thing was an attempt at shaming and revenge!<br /><br />Please view it.<br /><br />Menelik Charles<br />London UKMenelik Charlesnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567787243850242789.post-51282541511317459262011-02-13T15:06:54.305-08:002011-02-13T15:06:54.305-08:00Hey Rocy,
I'm not a fan of Harvey at all but...Hey Rocy, <br /><br />I'm not a fan of Harvey at all but I was definitely disturbed by the blind support this woman was receiving on the Internet. <br /><br />She was also his second wife which leads me to believe that she may have also been a mistress of Steve's at worst and at best she knew he had a prior failed marriage and her chances of success with him were slightly lower. Just like I hope the current Mrs. Harvey realizes that she may also not be his last stop. <br /><br />Anyway, your point about scorned women is very important. In their youth men are rejected, cheated on and pretty much humiliated by women. Not all men, but most. My husband loves to remind me that when we met I continued to date around a bit while it was clear he was willing to drop everything. Keep in mind, I was 21!! LOL! But when I think back on that time period, those first few weeks, I was really indifferent to how he felt about us being exclusive. His persistence is what eventually made me give up other suitors. He would have been well within his rights to move on and im sure he would have if I strung him along. He's no dummy! Anyway my point is that when women are at the height of their youth and beauty, we tend to take men for granted. We have suitors pouring out of our ears and can often be cruel and not even know it. Lying to guys, cheating on them, stringing them along, etc. But all that changes when we get older. And men do not forget how they were treated! They remember every stuck up girl that dissed them, every girl they loved that cheated, etc. Neither sex really handles scorn well, it's just that men hold most of the power once we enter adulthood and they wield that power by selecting women for their own reasons, often ignoring criticisms and "warnings" from other women. Men do what they want to do while women do what they have <br />to do.<br /><br />Women usually want men to "get over" being ridiculed as kids and teens, ignore the often harsh behavior of young women, "grow up", etc. But women are allowed to take any hurt or pain no matter how old or insignificant and use that as an excuse for any one of her many issues. Hence black women often saying that black women are baby mamas because they have low self esteem caused by black men. Imagine if black men said they are more prone to participating in criminal activities because they have low self esteem? They'd be laughed off stage. But it could be just as true.<br /><br />Women's pain and anguish = validity for a lifetime of poor decisions<br /><br />Men's pain and anguish = fuel to overcome obstacles and succeedRashidahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04891264904333177676noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567787243850242789.post-31441861840100363552011-02-09T23:47:57.822-08:002011-02-09T23:47:57.822-08:00Good post.
When will the slandering end with thes...Good post.<br /><br />When will the slandering end with these black women?<br /><br />I am no fan of Steve Harvey but I am glad he got his side of the story out. People were under the impression he left her broke.<br /><br />She got a good sum of money since 2005 and 1.5 million. The kid ain't even with her.<br /><br />I am going to be the next Steve Harvey. I won't release the title of the book yet. I keep saying that lol. I am going to find time to write a book.<br /><br />For the record a couple black women I know liked the book. They just said it was common sense most of it. It is on the best seller's list.<br /><br />Obviously, a large segment of black women are reading the book whether they like Steve Harvey or not.<br /><br />These black women need to stop acting like the Super Bowl Ad. LOL They need a Pepsi can at themselves.<br /><br />Good work RockyAndrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09219240435751933526noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567787243850242789.post-45716156165692790062011-02-09T13:44:03.626-08:002011-02-09T13:44:03.626-08:00The post didn't make this out to be anything e...The post didn't make this out to be anything exclusive to black women, though the IR bloggers were my main emphasis. When IR bloggers bash black men, do you argue that bad things done by black men are not exclusive to black men?<br /><br />And if you would rather shoot a nail in your foot than read his books, that apparently means that you have not read his books? In that case, how do you know that his books are "terrible"? You seem to have actually shot yourself in the foot with that statement.<br /><br />Sylvia Hubbard is a divorced single mother. Have you written to her blog calling her a "joke"? <br /><br />http://www.lulu.com/product/book-download/how-to-love-a-black-woman/1140597<br /><br />Steve Harvey has had two failed marriages. That is all that you know. Speculating on his other relationships is meaningless. <br /><br />Also, Steve has said more than once:<br /><br /><i>"I'm not giving you advice on marriage, I'm giving you advice on men".</i><br /><br />Is that concept so difficult to understand?Rockyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15184158922025670970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4567787243850242789.post-31942015016423533532011-02-09T09:11:38.186-08:002011-02-09T09:11:38.186-08:00"Hell has no fury like a woman scorned"
..."Hell has no fury like a woman scorned"<br /><br />It's a woman thing.<br /><br />Not a BLACK woman thing.<br /><br />We could find hundreds of cases in history of scorned women doing far worse than "lying". I can name a few that ended up as murders and etc. These women were of different races and time periods, so it's not a today thing or even a black woman thing but rather a woman thing.<br /><br />Steve Harvey's advice books are horrible.<br /><br />He is talking out of his ass and I would rather shoot a nail in my foot than read his book. It was a joke and he is a joke.<br /><br />Talk about a man with multiple failed marriages and god knows how many failed relationships.<br /><br />What's next, Tiger Woods wants to write a book? Maybe even Elizabeth Taylor?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com